The overwhelmingly suave personality of a Scorpio man can draw in absolutely anyone, but lurking past the cover of this book is a story Gemini women usually don’t want to read. The Gemini woman’s happiness depends on new experiences, and there is nothing she would appreciate more than a partner by her side to enjoy them with. Sadly for a Scorpio man, loving anything too much can be suspicious, and her desire for freedom from his arms and watchful eyes is simply too much. Gemini are treasured for their ability to readily adapt to any situation, and the success of a Scorpio man and Gemini woman relationship will greatly depend on this ability and how far she’s willing to take it. The road will assuredly not be easy, but there is hope to find an agreeable balance if clear and non-oppressive boundaries can be worked out ahead of time. Gaining an understanding of the traits of your partner’s sign can greatly help in communication and making reasonable expectations to increase your chance of success.
Basic Compatibility
A Gemini woman is relatively easy to please as long as she has the freedom to sate her curiosities and a friend or partner at her side. She has no real interest in being a leader and actively avoids making decisions, preferring to defer to a more decisive partner whenever possible. Her inconsistent behavior can often evolve into unreliability, but it is not at all due to laziness. Life is simply too full of captivating distractions for all born of the twins sign. She struggles most when life becomes routine and predictable, and if she cannot find her excitement in people, she will frequently flock aimlessly from hobby to hobby. Her social life is truly what makes her, and while she may be nervous in every other situation, high-energy social situations and crowds are her most comfortable environment. What she needs most of all is communication and freedom to be herself, if either of these is lacking she will blow from your presence like the wind, and not even look back.
If you’re looking for the standard Scorpio man, you often need to look no further than the cover of the nearest romance novel. His charming, yet mysterious nature, innate protectiveness and masterful hand at romance frequently drives him to the top of any woman’s most desired list. He is an assertive leader, brimming with confidence which balances out the passive nature of Gemini. Unlike Gemini, Scorpio men are very in touch with their emotional side, and it is these emotions that drive the passion Scorpio is most known for. Gemini women most certainly lead with their head and are intellectually focused as opposed to the physicality and emotion-led drive of a Scorpio man. Common conflicts between the two involve the scorpion’s distrust, possessiveness, and streaks of jealousy that can lead to bitterly angry fighting. For her part, the Gemini woman can seem cold and distant, along with being overly flirtatious while being in a committed relationship. Almost all issues between them involve trust, and trust is the most important thing to a Scorpio, so there is little wiggle room.
Love And Relationships
As expected for the social butterfly Gemini woman, making friends is easy, and she is rarely not surrounded by individuals of all types. She values everyone for their individuality and doesn’t care about forcing anyone to match her values or interests. Making long-term friends is different, however, as Gemini women are known to move on once the allure of new discoveries has worn off. Still, she is caring and kind to all her friends, and few would be able to name something they dislike beyond her zeal for endless conversation.
Scorpio men are nowhere near as social as Geminis. Their passion is single-target, exactly the way they prefer it. They are most likely to have a small circle of friends and an even smaller group of close friends, often just two or three people. There is no one who can match his loyalty as it is so important to him to be the friend he expects in return. It is these close friends that he trusts with his life, and often his secrets.
Within an intimate relationship is where a Scorpio’s true passion is revealed. They are not only quite romantic but extremely sexual beings as well. In contrast, Gemini women often aren’t nearly as gung-ho about sexual matters. Still, her desire to try new things and excitement certainly add to the couple’s sex life. Red flags are most prominent in this stage of a relationship, and both partners should keep an eye out for possessiveness, lack of interest and lack of time spent together. Open and honest communication can nip many of these problems in the bud before they grow out of control, but Scorpio men will need to ensure they don’t let explosive emotional reactions drive away their partner.
Working Together
Gemini women tend to perform amazingly well in the workplace regardless of position. Her adaptability shines here, and she will never crumble under pressure. A career that utilizes her intellectual capabilities and an ever-changing environment are best for her. She is not lazy but can struggle with reliability if too distracted with her own ideas. Scorpio men are often leaders in the workplace, and they consistently work hard to deserve it. Resourcefulness can make a scorpion outshine his coworkers, and puts him nicely in lockstep with a Gemini. It is not uncommon for him to find himself embroiled in drama as the sign loves secrets, but with the right focus, he remains dependable. Gemini women and Scorpio men pose no real threat to each other at work and despite differing personalities, can work in a team with ease.
If mixing the king of passion with the queen of conversation sounds like a risky venture, that’s because it is.
Differences in core values and their expectations in a partner can make any serious relationship a challenge. This mountain is not insurmountable, however, and determined love can easily prevail when couples agree to communicate. While both signs tend to lean toward a my-way-or-the-highway approach, this pairing is definitely a road worth venturing down if the opportunity arises. Geminis and Scorpios alike should learn to live and laugh together, and love will almost always follow.
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