Gemini men interested in any sort of relationship with a Virgo woman are faced with one shot at bringing the right tool for the job or facing failure. A Virgo woman often expects everyone but herself to be a bastion of patience and can be pretty unforgiving to a failed attempt to win her friendship or attention. Gemini’s changeable moods and personalities are a real weakness in this venture, but his charm may be more than enough to save the day. Simply put, this match will not be an easy one, and it will push the adaptability of Gemini and determination of Virgo to its limits. If you are determined to stick it out, take heart as the hardworking Virgo woman, and the solution-seeking Gemini man will surprise all with their tenacity. The toughest matches are often the most satisfying so one should never give up on love and compatibility.
Basic Compatibility
The Gemini man possesses a curious and playful nature that finds fun in learning new things and talking to new people. The Gemini is led more by his head than his heart and is often unfairly called cold or distant. As a sign who cannot stand to be left alone, this could not be further from the truth. While he will never possess the passion or emotional state of a Scorpio, what he lacks in emotional direction he more than makes up for intellectually. Nearly every experience is a good one for a Gemini man, whether it is a struggle to solve a problem or meeting a new friend. He will always seek to avoid conflict whenever possible and would rather run away than hurt someone.
Unfortunately, his endless search for new experiences can often leave needier signs feeling neglected or unappreciated once the luster of their friendship or relationship wears off. Still, his greatest boon is his true desire to please and ability to change himself to do so for those that matter most.
The Virgo woman is practical and reliable just at her earth sign dictates, never shirking duty or promises even if things grow hard. This has a positive and almost anchoring effect for the Gemini man who is generally inconsistent, forgetful, and prone to wandering about. She loves and appreciates hard work and simply cannot stomach laziness or wasting time in others. She is strict in her expectations and brutal in her criticism of those who fall short of meeting them. The free-spirited Gemini man becomes an easy target, especially as he will not fight back. She craves order and perfection in her life in everything from her ideal partner to the state of her home environment. Above all, she wants to be loved and swept off her feet by her knight in shining armor. As her love for someone grows, she budges on her high expectations but, for Gemini, these are still some pretty big boots to fill.
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Love And Relationships
The Virgo woman is guarded with her heart for both her friends and her lovers. Any relationship with her will take a lengthy investment of dedication and attention before you rise to the ranks of a true friend. While her desperate need to feel valued and appreciated are evident, she treats her friends exceptionally well out of the goodness of her heart without ulterior motives. She is always there to support a friend in need even if she tends to throw in a bit of chastisement and unwanted advice their way. Gemini men are social butterflies who live to have conversations with anyone and everyone possible.
Making friendships is a breeze for them with their natural charm and lovable personalities. The downside is many friendships can be short or superficial and end up abandoned if things end up losing interest quickly. Gemini men and Virgo women will struggle to forge friendships with their opposing natures. She needs a long and unfading devotion that he often will only provide to the woman he loves. He needs someone as playful and fun to talk to as himself and a Virgo is anything but that.
The same issues present in friendship are only multiplied in intimate relationships. The Gemini man is affectionate, but he is no knight in shining armor to romantically sweep the virgin off her feet. He cannot stand repetition and therefore finds it difficult to spend a lifetime assuaging her insecurities. When he does love, he loves truly with all his heart but emotionally grounded and independent signs will fare better. The Virgo woman needs the passion that the Gemini man can provide but both of them remain insecure about trying new things in bed which can potentially cause issues. Despite her reputation for strict control, it is intimacy where she really lets go and desires emotions and love to consume her. The ability of Gemini to adapt to needs can help him shine here as he has little interest in sex without an emotional component. They are likely to find passion and enjoyment in bed at the very least, even if their needs differ too much to find it elsewhere.
Working Together
Gemini men and Virgo women will make a fantastic team in the workplace regardless of the situation. Both signs are well suited to work under pressure, brainstorm solutions when needed, and can function well alone. The Virgo woman is a bit of a perfectionist and can be difficult to work with for other signs, but Gemini will simply learn her expectations and strive to master them. He understands that working hours are for work and the chance of him slacking off or causing drama is slim to none. The virgin may not be beloved by her coworkers, but she will always be loved by her superiors due to her work ethic and tendency to keep everything organized. Regardless of who takes a leadership position, you can expect no major problems.
Any relationship between a Virgo woman and Gemini man is bound to have more downs than ups, but it does possess some redeeming qualities. The Gemini man is willing and able to please, using his capability to learn and adapt to be the dream guy Virgo desires. As long as she plays her cards right and doesn’t overdo her expectations, there is little reason why things cannot eventually succeed. Like many adventures in life, the journey will not be easy, but the reward will well be worth it for all their hard work. Virgo’s insecurities and expectations get easier as time goes on and a Gemini never forgets the things he has learned. Finding happiness as friends or soulmates is a scalable mountain.
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