As an avid student of human nature, I have this tendency to create neologisms and coin phrases to describe human behavior. Since most of my experience lies in the realm of lesbian behavior, they usually apply to that segment of society – but I have found that the behaviors are often applicable to heterosexuals as …
Are you allowing yourself to be contorted into a pretzel in order to maintain an unequal relationship? Are you too accommodating to your partner’s schedule and calendar? Do you find yourself meeting with friends and family at the very last minute just in case he/she might call and decide to spend time with you? Has …
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Whether you’ve been with your man for a long time or the relationship is just starting out, it can be a little nerve-racking when it comes time to close the bedroom door. Sharing pleasure with your partner can be a huge part of any relationship; after all, you want to do it right! So if …
Every man has needs; both emotional and physical. When these needs aren’t met, men seek to fulfill them however they can. It may be a need for respect, affection, happiness, or intimacy that leads a man to cheat. It could be something that he never even mentions. Luckily, not every woman has to worry about …
If you know what you are looking for, the task of finding your soulmate will be much easier and the journey will accelerate. Love is like a puzzle, so you seek a partner who provides a snug fit, not an identical copy of you. The more you both share as you discover each other, the …
Life usually progresses in cycles or periods of time. The period of time when you are single can be frustrating, depressing and agonizing. Or, a break from partnership could be a time of great joy and discovery. It’s up to you. Loneliness is tricky, like a snake. It will wrap around you and squeeze hard. …
Many great, available men are seen as less than desirable partners because they have children from a previous relationship. While there are hassles and roadblocks, to categorically dismiss a good man with whom you have great chemistry because he has kids may be doing yourself a great disservice. When women complain that, “all the good …
Flowers, serenading and candle-lit dinners all ooze romance. But these express the feminine side of romance. There are times when a woman has to take the lead in making sure her man knows that he is best cared for by his woman. The time has arrived for you to be romantic to him but …
Describe the partner you want to find and write it down. All of it. Finding a partner is like shopping for a home. You want to live in a structure that’s strong, durable and operates properly. Perhaps you prefer a cozy abode that’s large enough to hold you and keep all your stuff safe. Does …
You are perfect, whole and complete even in your countless imperfections. Once you know it, celebrate it and have calibrated your life to support your goals, anything is possible. Now you’re truly ready for love. So how will you let the world know? A tweet, a billboard, or perhaps a TV commercial? Rather than mailing …
